Honest and truthful are not synonymous with “transparent”

After I told him no thank you that I had already made plans he’s been ignoring me since.

Actually, what she said was, “so I’m on a time limit? Thanks, but no thanks, I made plans.”

Such is the disconnect from how we perceive our words and actions, what was actually said, and how the other person perceives us.

Nice dude!

- I hope you get what you want. I enjoyed every detail of your post. keep it up.

Regards,
John

You know, it’s just that Low Self Esteem girl mentality. All these women are so eerily similar. If I would have spent more time with this girl, I know it would have turned into my last relationships. Judgementalness, bitterness, fighting, etc., etc.

Yes man! Exactly! This girl has a HUGE complex in regards to me being “frustrated with her”, etc.

But anyway, time to move on.

Lex

Jailbait and my ex have so much in common, I swear they’re the same person! I mean the similarities are unbelievable.

You’re right though, when it comes down to it, it’s a matter of her having LSE and being very insecure about herself and the relationship.

She wanted to make believe something was there that wasn’t. She did it so much that she lost sight of the fact that what she was seeing didn’t exist.

It reminds me of a story. My best friend broke his nose and needed to have some surgery to repair some air tubing thing inside. So my other friend would make fun of him saying that my best friend was getting a “nose job.”

He kept going on and on about it that he eventually convinced himself that my best friend was actually getting a nose job. And when he saw him a couple weeks ago, he seriously asked him, “so hey, how’s the nose job?”

Sometimes, it’s an accident, other times it’s intentional, and other times, it’s a huge complex. Clearly Jailbait has a huge complex here.

Saying a bold statement like the “PMS” thing was something that got people’s attention and in a good way because they knew you were teasing.

This is a good point but I think it is also a really easy way to get caught up in “tactics”, which I think a lot of guys do when they learn David DeAngelo’s Cocky & Funny.

It was perfectly in the moment, Moonface initiated the movement of the conversation that way, because she has a crazy sense of humor like that, and I just went with it. But the hazard is always needing to be funny or have a quick, funny comment, aka Attachment, which is not a good thing.

I try to maintain a fun and funny vibe as long as I am not attached to being funny and having a fun vibe. I am just being myself without needing to be anything else besides that. Sometimes I’m funny, sometimes I’m serious, it all just… occurs.

Glad you enjoyed.

Saying a bold statement like the “PMS” thing was something that got people’s attention and in a good way because they knew you were teasing.

I think what was good was that you noticed her shyness and stepped it down a notch and got right into getting to know her. Pretty much assuming that she was attracted to you, it didn’t matter what you said.

Good stuff, Lex.