LR: Short Stack – The Close

Continuing from the last post about Short Stack…

After meeting up the day before, we still got together on the original Friday we had planned. While she was trying to pull the whole, we’re going to another restaurant, I tell her she’s coming to my apartment to eat in and watch a movie.  Which in chickspeak means come over to fuck.

She gets here and things are fine.  If anything we have some pretty good chemistry and she doesn’t come off as being needy or demanding.  Also she tells me that she’s got commitment issues, which means don’t expect a relationship - great for me.

Eventually we get up to my bedroom to watch the movie.

Hooking up for the first time is like going to war. Poking and proding different angles of attack, looking for the opening to the pussy.  Some girls like to be touched a certain way, in a certain order.  For example, most women don’t prefer to have their boobs touched the first time having sex, because it’s such an instant alarm for their anti-slut defenses.  Short Stack, on the other hand, gave a ton of resistance having her pussy touched until I played with her boobs first.  It’s just a matter of being open and non-needy to getting sex, but being able to find the way to get what you want.  Basic freeze-out and fractionalization tactics should be mastered.

I got her all the way naked.  She tells me that we’re not going to have sex, we’re not going to do it.  I’m just agreeing.  ”You’re right, we’re not,” I say with a very mischievous grin on my face.  I still put on the condom, and I’m getting ready to get inside her.  Another amazing skill that comes with experience is totally seeing through token resistance.

Unfortunately, she completely stops me, “no, I can’t.  I actually just had a small procedure done and I can’t have sex for a week.”  (I’m keeping exactly what it was off here, but I know what you may be thinking, and no it wasn’t for an STD.)

I start laughing, and I say, “then how the hell did you let me get to this point?”

She responds, “I don’t really know!”

There’s something I always have a hard time understanding about doing all this pickup stuff, which is the woman’s perspective on what’s going on.  To me, everything is planned.  I am in total control and am leading every single step of the interaction.  There is nothing I haven’t come across before, and there’s nothing that I don’t understand, even if I do it wrong.

But from a woman’s perspective, shit is just happening.  They don’t know where it’s going or whats happening.  They just know it feels good, and that they may or may not want it to stop.  When a woman gives “token resistance” it’s not like she realizes she’s doing it, she’s just feeling slightly uncomfortable and she kind of freaks out in her head and wants you to make her feel better.

Anyway, we have to stop, and Short Stack ends up giving me a BJ.  I’m pretty disappointed, but this deal is basically done.  4 days later we meet up again, and it’s obvious what’s going to happen.

It is interesting though, because right before I’m inside her she stops me again to say “this isn’t happening.”

Sometimes it’s easiest just to state the facts.  I tell her that she doesn’t need to worry, this isn’t going to turn into anything, and that we’re just enjoying ourselves.  It’s totally not a big deal.

Resistance gone in a blaze of honesty.

Another one bites the dust.