Introducing… LexIcon

How to approach a proper introduction? Let me start where it all began, that’ll probably make the most sense.

About 3 years ago I began working in a bookstore in Miami. There was this girl there, I’ll spare the name, but just for our purposes I’ll call her “Ileana”. Ileana had bad breath, no body, she was way out there, and for some very odd reason I convinced myself this was the girl of my dreams. After focusing a ton of attention on her by going to work just to talk, we eventually went out on what I thought was a date.

We were drinking beers by her pool, and I meekly asked her, “Can I kiss you?” In which she said… “oh… well… we’re just friends”. I had just been LJBF’ed (Let’s Just Be Friends, for all you AFC’s *Average Frustrated Chumps* out there – Note: I will try to define as many PUA *Pick Up Artist* terms as possble when writing). For the next couple of months I went from despair, to interest, to trying to figure out how I could possibly MAKE her like me. Sometimes I wanted to never talk to her again, sometimes I wanted her to marry me. And all this for a girl that I had never even fucked.

It wasn’t until a friend that I’d made at the job approached me. He was older then me, his mid-30’s (I was early 20’s at the time) and he said, “you don’t have to be like this, there’s a better way to do this”. And that way my first introduction into The Seduction Community, aka The Community.

My evolution has been slow. At first I read a book called How To Succeed With Women by Louis & Copeland, and then moved onto my first seduction e-book, Double Your Dating by David De’Angelo. And then I put my lessons to use.

It’s been a while now since I’ve read those books but I was never what I’d call a PUA. I’ve been with a fair amount of girls, but it wasn’t until a month or two ago that I made my full giant leaps into The Community by downloading the e-book by Savoy called Magic Bullets and very rapidly followed it by The Mystery Method by Mystery, and of course The Game by Style (Neil Strauss).

One of the pieces of joining The Community is to become part of a “LAIR”, a group of guys who get together and discuss what they’ve read as well as break down their experiences in “The Field” (the place that PUAs go to pick up girls, like a bar, club, even grocery store). It was there that I met Skywalker. Hopefully the rest will be history.

There are some very specific things that I hope to gain by doing this. Through my years of being involved in The Game, I’ve realized a lot about myself. First of all, I’m an incredibly well intentioned guy. I started gaming because I knew I was a good guy and a guy that women really wanted to meet. I was tired of being rejected by women and being a Baxter *a guy who is a girls friend but secretly likes them*. Even today, as I’ve improved in gaming and being with women, I still love the experience of the first kiss. It’s one of the most exciting and beautiful things I’ve ever experienced. I even prefer it to having sex for the first time. It’s so pure, and innocent, and passionate. I love almost every woman I’ve ever known for the first two months that I know them.

The point of this blog is partially to spread the word. I feel a lot of empathy for guys like me who have the hardest time meeting women. I’m no PUG *Pick Up Guru, or a person who is so good at the game he teaches others* or even a PUA. I’m just a guy out there, doing what I’ve learned.

Also, this blog will serve as a open journal of sorts so that I can keep my thoughts and experiences contained along side a good friend’s. I’m giong to post FR *Field Reports* as well as some of my own personal history and how it has changed me, my game, and my life.

And maybe, just maybe, if we’re good enough, this could eventually be the foundation for us putting out our own little e-book so that some guy like me can know that it’s alright that you can’t meet women, and that there is a better way.